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Taming Toxic People

Taming Toxic People

By David Gillespiepaperback25 July 2017
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"I didn't know how to deal with the poisonous and toxic people in my life or why they behaved the way they did, so I went looking for an answer. This book is what I found."

Bestselling author David Gillespie turns his attention to a phenomenon that damages businesses, seeds mental disease and discomfort and can bring civilisations to the brink of implosion - the psychopath.

Psychopaths are often thought of as killers and criminals, but actually five to ten per cent of people are probably psychopathic without ever indulging in a single criminal act. These everyday psychopaths may be charming in the early stages of relationships or employment but, Gillespie argues, their presence in your life is at best disruptive, and at worst highly dangerous: they will leave you feeling cheated and humiliated, dominating and manipulating you to the point where you question your sanity. Worse, he cautions, at a societal level their tendency to gravitate towards positions of power can be disastrous.

Taming Toxic People is a practical guide to restraining that difficult person in your life, be it your boss, your spouse or a parent. But it is also a serious and meticulously researched warning: if we value a free and well-functioning society, we need to rebuild the sense of community that has historically kept the everyday psychopath in check, and we must understand and act to manage the psychopathic behaviour in our midst.

PRODUCT DETAILS

  • Title: Taming Toxic People
  • Author: David Gillespie
  • Edition: 1
  • Publisher: Pan Macmillan Australia
  • ISBN: 9781743535875
  • Length: 233.0 millimetre
  • Width: 154.0 millimetre
  • Languages: English

RATINGS & REVIEW

25/10/2017 8:30:24 PM - Marianne
Essential reading for any human being.
4.5 stars Taming Toxic People is a book by former corporate lawyer, technology adviser and best-selling Australian author, David Gillespie. Subtitled “The science of identifying & dealing with psychopaths at work & at home”, this book delivers exactly what it promises. When David Gillespie talks about psychopaths, he’s not (usually) talking about the people that might kill us (“us” being the ones with empathy); rather, he’s referring to the people that can, so easily, make our work, our home, our neighbourhood, in short, our lives, a misery. It may surprise readers when Gillespie notes that Mother Teresa has been described as a psychopath, although this is certainly borne out by Colette Livermore's revealing memoir of her time with the Order of the Missionaries of Charity, Hope Endures. But few will be surprised that Donald Trump, Caligula, Lance Armstrong, Saddam Hussein, Adolf Hitler, Idi Amin and Henry VIII also come under this banner. Gillespie lists the key characteristics of the psychopath and describes their primary behaviours, with examples. From these, readers will easily recognise those people in their lives that are psychopaths. And if they don’t, if they’ve never met a psychopath, they can a) count themselves very lucky and b) know how to survive it when they do. Gillespie includes handy checklists to help: identify psychopaths; survive the psychopath at work and at home; what to record; leave a psychopath; manage a psychopathic parent or child; and survive the psychopathic neighbour. The depth of Gillespie’s research is apparent from the extensive notes for each chapter, but this wealth of information is presented in easily digestible form. Essential reading for any human being.
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3/06/2019 12:12:03 PM - Lydia
A wealth of understanding
Provides an insightfull and easy to read guide of what to look for at work and in relationships so that a person can identify a psychopath before becoming enthralled by one. Helped me to realise that what was happening, how I was feeling and what I was battling with wasn't my fault. It was the fault of the psychopath in my life.
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